Most women find it difficult to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex. But there are five poses that often lead to success. Try each of them and determine which one is right for you.
1. Rider
How to perform
The partner lies on her back, the woman sits on top and clasps him with her legs. During sex it is better to swing back and forth instead of trying to jump. You can also try to slowly describe the pelvis with the eight.
Why it works
- When a woman is on top, she completely controls the pace, angle and depth of penetration.
- There are many variations of this position, which makes it universal.
- Stimulation of the man in this position is not very strong, so he can hold out longer and give the partner time to reach orgasm.
Variations
- Try the “Back Rider” pose: for this, the partner needs to sit with his back to the man’s face. Thus, he will get an excellent view, and she – new opportunities for stimulation.
- A man can put a pillow under his back and raise himself a little. As a result, the position of the penis will change and it will be possible to stimulate other areas of the vagina.
- To strengthen the stimulation point G, a woman should lean back. In this position it is also convenient to caress the clitoris.
2. Doggy style
How to perform
Partners stand on their knees, and the man penetrates into the woman from behind. Moving in this position can only be a partner, or both.
Why it works
- For women who can achieve vaginal orgasm, plus – the intensity and direct stimulation of the point G.
- Women who need orgasm for stimulation of the clitoris, in this position it is convenient to caress yourself with your hand or use a sex toy.
Variations
- A partner can drop on her elbows to change the angle of penetration.
- The partner can stand next to the bed – in this case, the depth and intensity of penetration will be even greater.
- To make the pose more intimate, it’s enough for partners to lie down.
3. Technique of coital alignment
How to perform
Everything begins with a missionary position, then the man rises just above the traditional position and, instead of making penetrating movements, concentrates on the sliding ones.
Why it works
In this situation, the pubic bone of the partner rubs against the clitoris, which gives the same stimulation that many women need for orgasm. At the same time, the pose remains rather relaxed and intimate.
Variations
- For a stronger clitoral stimulation, you need to literally open the labia to make the clitoris touch the body of the partner.
- If a woman puts a pillow under her thighs, the angle of penetration will change.
- It is not superfluous to use lubricant: it will increase the slip.
4. Back rider + scissors
How to perform
This is not the simplest position. The woman should sit with her back to the man’s face and, as it were, wrap her legs around one of his legs, bent at the knee.
Why it works
- As in the “Rider” position, the partner controls the pace, as well as the strength of the clitoral stimulation.
- In addition, this is not the most common position, so that its very novelty can be exciting.
Variations
Here everything depends on the woman. It can change the position of the legs: set them wider or shift, – and also lean back and lean forward.
5. The Bridge
How to perform
Start with a missionary position. Then the partner should kneel, and the partner – raise the pelvis.
Why it works
- This position provides deep penetration and stimulation of the point G.
- Also in this position, the partner is comfortable caressing the clitoris.
Variations
- A man can rise or fall to change the angle of penetration. Actually, like a woman.
- To increase the intensity, the partner is better to twist the partner’s torso or throw them on his shoulders.
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