Create a feeling of comfort
Consider the situation when you have a new novel, you are already halfway to sex, that is, a public or private agreement already exists or is noticeably suspended in the air.
To begin with it is necessary to make sure that your lady is generally ready morally and wants it just like you. Then pay attention to the surrounding circumstances. Try to look at the situation with her eyes. Is the soft light enough (if it is not at all, it does not hurt, but even vice versa)? How convenient and clean is the box or what are you going to do with it? Is there any danger of being seen, overheard and so on (unless, of course, you are exhibitionists)?
Speak and act
If she is standing and does not take any action, undress. Undress herself – follow her example.
Women love with their ears. This is an axiom, so do not forget to tell her what it is magnificent, beautiful, how tasty it smells, elastic, sweet, etc. So she will relax, and this is the first step to excitement. No other way.
Choose proven methods
Kissing, stroking, easy to do with the tongue without leaving wet marks on her skin – all these methods of excitation are known, as are erogenous zones (primarily the neck and chest, but the sensitive ankle and knee bend can be anything ).
Act gently, but not too easily, so that the woman does not become ticklish: laughter with excitement is badly combined.
If looming thoughtful sex on a comfortable bed, you can offer a lady a light massage with oil. This is very winding. Just remember that the oil should be warm. With smells you need to be more careful: they can be harsh or do not like it personally.
Use aphrodisiacs
Not all, but many believe in the power of stimulant drugs and natural aphrodisiacs – that is, what should cause excitement. It is known that strong drugs have a huge number of side effects. And we do not recommend adding them to a woman’s food or drinks without her knowing: taking these or those drugs or not should be just her choice.
As for natural pathogens, these are, first of all, seafood, olives, chocolate, avocados and a number of products, most of which are amateurish and can cause allergies: be careful. Exciting properties of food can be revealed in 40 minutes – an hour.
But in any case, a bite to eat: hungry women often can only think about food. By the way, the magic power of wine, too, no one canceled: a glass-two will help to relax, which means it’s faster to get excited.
Do not insist
Contrary to the established opinion among men that kuni, like blowjob, love everything, not every woman wants to see between her legs on the first night the language of her new partner. If you try to bring your head closer to her crotch, and she gently pushes you away, then she does not want to: she is not sure of herself, she thinks she smells bad, is not shaved, and so on. In general, do not try to understand, just do not persist.
Stir, but check
In general, you can try anything, but constantly monitor the reaction. If, in response to the fact that you grabbed her wrists and threw her hands behind her head, she pursed her lips, or twitched, or squeezed her knees, loosen the grip. Twisted her fist into a fist, but she frowned? Again the wrong move. They touched her clitoris’ hand, and she arched her back and purred? Well, finally guessed!
Tell us what’s in store for her
We will not ignore the situation when it is necessary to excite a girlfriend with whom you have a relationship of constant sex. If you coveted her immediately and not at the right place and now fear that she will not agree to co-operation, act on her with words, and better in a whisper.
A rare woman is not excited if you start whispering to her about what and how you will do with her now. Well, if your hand starts to help, as they say, not in word, but in deed.
Desire her
And most importantly – remember: there is little that can excite a woman more than the look or feel of her suffering man. If you do not burn yourself, then the young lady will not be able to ignite you.
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