Take care of the atmosphere
Trivial, but the muffled light, pleasant aromas and music already adjust on the necessary harmony. So a couple of candles or aromatic sticks and an unobtrusive playlist will never be superfluous.
The second point that you should think about in advance is the place where you will massage. Most likely, they will be a bed, although the floor or even the table, too, may well come up. In any case, beforehand, lay a towel so as not to soil the surface with oil, and put the pillow to your partner’s convenience.
Choose a massage oil
There are several options: buy a ready-made composition, make it yourself from natural oils (the recipe can be found in this article) or use one base oil.
Here are some oils that are perfect for any massage:
- argan;
- sesame;
- apricot or grape seed;
- karite (shek);
- coconut;
- almond;
- jojoba.
To them you can add more sensual aromas. For this purpose, the following oils are suitable:
- ylang-ylang;
- patchouli;
- sandalwood;
- jasmine;
- neroli;
- pink.
Do not use natural oils on intimate areas. For these purposes, it is better to choose a suitable product in a sex shop. Many of the products presented there are hypoallergenic and have an exciting effect, and some can be used as a lubricant.
Master the main massage techniques
Erotic massage should not be too active or painful. Its purpose is to give pleasant sensations and relax the body. It is enough to master several techniques and alternate them in order to achieve these effects.
Stroking
A simple and pleasant element from which you can start and which you can finish the massage of any part of the body. Also stroking is well performed after a more active technique. Just try to make your touch gentle, and the palms are in full contact with the body.
Compression
This technique relaxes muscles, improves blood circulation and warms the body before a massage. Great for back and buttocks. You can lightly press both hands on the body or put one palm on the other and perform circular pressing movements.
Pressure
Similar to the previous, but more point element. It removes clamps, relaxes strained muscles of the back, neck, arms and legs.
Connect the thumbs of your hands and, with a little pressure, make them circular motions. The palms should be in a horizontal or vertical position. The main thing – do not overdo it with pressure, so as not to cause pain.
Kneading
Imagine that knead the dough, and now do the same, but with the body. This will help to disperse blood and relax the muscles. Massaging is better than the buttocks, hips, sides and hands. Touch the stomach is not worth it.
Friction
Suitable for massage of the palms and feet without massage oil. The point is to increase the friction between the thumb of your hand and the partner’s skin and thus stimulate the nerve endings. With your finger, you can perform stroking, pressing and circular movements.
Develop a sequence of actions
Erotic massage should maximize the use of the body.
- Start with a head massage: it is done without oil. Stroke, grind and squeeze the skin of the top of the head and neck, ears and whiskey with fingertips.
- Continue to massage the neck, shoulders and back using the techniques listed above. At this stage, you need to introduce oil. Only pre-warm it in your hands so that your partner does not feel the temperature drop.
- Go to the buttocks.
- Further, go down to the hips and calves. Ask your partner to turn over and massage your legs on the other side. Be especially careful with your knees. Then massage the feet.
- After that, massage hands and palms.
- Go to a light massage of the chest. In a sense, this stage can already be considered a prelude.
End it can be rubbing the whole body or stimulating intimate zones. Although, in principle, erotic massage does not necessarily have to end with sex. It by itself can be just a pleasant gift for your partner.
